Our past doesn’t just stay in the past—it shows up in the way we love, fight, and connect. Based on podcast episode 28 of Feel and Find Out, Phoenix therapist Elaine Evans, LPC, joins Raquel to unpack how trauma and attachment shape relationships—and how healing opens the door to deeper intimacy and connection.

Curious about what actually happens in couples therapy? Many partners imagine endless conflict over dishes or a therapist “taking sides,” but real couples work goes far deeper. This blog breaks down what to expect in session, how therapy helps uncover underlying needs and patterns, and why it’s one of the most powerful ways to rebuild intimacy, trust, and connection.

Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy helps you understand the different “parts” of yourself and how they influence your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. This blog explains the core principles of IFS, how it works in therapy, and how connecting with your inner parts can lead to healing, self-compassion, and more fulfilling relationships.

Trauma doesn’t just affect your past—it shapes how you think, feel, and connect with others in the present. This blog explores the ways trauma impacts the brain, how it influences attachment and relational patterns, and what steps you can take to heal and build healthier, more secure relationships.